How to Get Portraits That Show the Real You
Introduction
Let’s be honest: a truly great portrait isn’t just a photo you hang on your wall or slap on your LinkedIn profile. It’s a story—a story all about you. Your unique personality, your quirks, and the vibe that makes you, you. It’s what makes people look at the photo and go, “Wow, that’s so you.”
At Stonetree Creative, I know how to make that happen. A good portrait doesn’t just look nice—it has heart and soul. Today, I’m going to show you how to make sure your portraits capture the real you. So, are you ready to bring out your inner star? Let’s dive in!
1. Why Personality is the Secret Ingredient
What Makes a Portrait Stand Out?
A photo isn’t just about good lighting or fancy editing. To truly stand out, a portrait needs to capture your essence. It should feel alive, like it’s more than just a picture. Think of it like this: a portrait is like a time capsule. It shouldn’t just show what you look like—it should show who you are.
The Difference: Generic vs. Personality-Packed Portraits
Generic portraits get the job done—they’re fine. You’re in it, you’re smiling, and it’s okay… but something’s missing. Great portraits, though? They have spark. They show your personality, your interests, your energy.
For example:
•A book lover in a cozy library corner, lost in their favorite novel.
•An adventurer on a cliff, hair flying in the wind.
•An artist in their studio, surrounded by colorful splatters of paint.
See the difference? It’s all about bringing your personality to life in the picture.
2. Get Ready for a Portrait That’s Totally You
Start with a Little Self-Reflection
Before your session, take a moment to think about what makes you…well, you. Ask yourself:
•What words describe me best? Adventurous? Creative? Chill?
•What are my favorite hobbies or passions? Do you love painting, playing guitar, hiking, or baking?
•How do I want to be remembered? What’s the vibe I want this photo to have?
If you’re feeling stuck, ask a close friend or family member—sometimes they know you better than you know yourself!
Work with Your Photographer
Your photographer is your teammate in this! Don’t be afraid to share your ideas with them. At Stonetree Creative, I love hearing about your vision, so:
•Tell me your ideas. Do you want something bold, soft, or totally unique?
•Share photos or mood boards (Pinterest is amazing for this). It helps me understand what you love.
•Be open to suggestions. I’ve got tons of experience, and trust me, I know how to bring your vision to life.
Pick the Perfect Spot
The location of your portrait can make a huge difference. Think about where you feel the most like yourself:
1.In a studio: Clean and simple, perfect for a timeless look.
2.Outdoors: Nature, city streets, or your favorite park can add personality.
3.At home: Nothing feels more personal than your own space.
For example:
•An extrovert might shine in a busy city scene.
•A nature lover could feel right at home in a peaceful forest.
•A writer might look just right in their favorite coffee shop, sipping a latte.
3. Bring It All Together with Style
Wear What Feels Right
The key to a great outfit? It should feel like you.
•Do you love bold colors and fun patterns? Go for it!
•Prefer neutrals or a simple style? That’s totally fine, too.
•Avoid wearing anything that feels uncomfortable or too over-the-top—if you’re fidgeting or itching, it’ll show.
Remember: confidence is the best thing you can wear.
Add Props That Tell Your Story
Props can show off what you love and make your portrait even more personal.
•Play an instrument? Bring your guitar or saxophone.
•Love painting? Show off a brush and a colorful canvas.
•Always reading? Grab your favorite book.
But keep it simple—one or two props are all you really need!
Hair, Makeup, and Accessories
You don’t have to go overboard, but a little polish can go a long way.
•Want a natural look? Keep it fresh and simple.
•Feeling fancy? Bring in a makeup artist or stylist.
•Either way, stay true to your usual style—this is about being you.
The idea is to look like your best self, not someone else.
4. Strike a Pose
Be Relaxed and Real
The best way to look good in front of the camera? Just be you. Here’s how:
•Practice a little in front of the mirror before your session. You might feel silly, but it’ll help!
•Take deep breaths and think about something that makes you laugh or smile—your natural expression will come through.
•Trust your photographer to guide you. At Stonetree Creative, I’m great at finding your best angles (and yes, I’ll probably drop a dad joke or two to make you laugh).
Use Body Language to Tell a Story
Sometimes, your body says more than your face.
•Slightly lean forward to seem approachable.
•Keep your hands soft and relaxed—use props, pockets, or gentle gestures to avoid the “what do I do with my hands?!” panic.
•Focus on natural, easy movements—no need to overthink it.
Fun Poses to Try
Here are some ideas to bring your personality to the pose:
1.Laughing naturally for a fun, candid feel.
2.Looking off to the side like you’re lost in thought.
3.Sitting casually, legs crossed, with a calm demeanor.
4.Leaning on a wall with arms crossed for a confident vibe.
5.Hugging something meaningful—like your dog, your favorite mug, or even a blanket.
6.Walking or moving to capture a lively, easygoing energy.
7.Brushing your hand through your hair for a touch of drama.
8.Smiling softly with your eyes closed, looking peaceful.
9.Gazing far away toward something meaningful.
10.Standing tall in a power pose that says, “I’ve got this!”
5. After Your Photoshoot
Pick the Best Shots
When you sit down to choose your favorite pictures, look for the ones that feel like you.
•Which ones make you smile?
•Which ones capture your personality the best?
Candid moments often shine the brightest, so don’t overlook those in-between shots!
Show Off Your Portraits
Don’t let your photos sit on a computer forever.
•Frame your favorite and hang it somewhere you can enjoy it every day.
•Update your profile pictures—you’ll feel like a whole new person.
•Share them with friends and family. Trust me, your mom will cry.
Conclusion
Your personality is what makes your portraits you. Every expression, pose, and prop should tell a little piece of your story. When it all comes together, the result is a photo that feels alive, authentic, and unforgettable—that sparks the reaction, “Wow, that’s so you.”
Ready to show the world the real you? Let’s make it happen. And don’t worry—I welcome all your quirks (weird is good!!).
