The Art of Truly Seeing Ourselves: A Reflection on Self-Perception
Have you ever stopped to look at yourself—not just a quick glance in the mirror, but a true moment of reflection? In a world filled with endless to-do lists and judgments, we often miss out on appreciating who we are right now. I want us to shift our perspective and rethink how we view ourselves.
Time and Self-Judgment
“Time does a strange thing; we rush past the present, fixated on what should be different and what’s been lost.”
The passage of time can distort how we see ourselves. Instead of living in the present, we often become fixated on what we believe should change or what we’ve lost. Our imperfections stand out, and we tend to judge ourselves harshly for the marks of time.
Shifting Perspective: The Photographer’s Eye
“What if we looked at ourselves the way a photographer looks at us?”
I suggest a new way of seeing ourselves—not through the lens of our own judgment, but through the eyes of a photographer. A photographer captures light, strength, and the story of a lifetime etched on our faces. This shift in perspective allows us to see ourselves not as flawed but as living, breathing stories, full of strength and beauty.
Capturing the Moment: Not for Vanity, but for Legacy
“Imagine capturing that, not for vanity but for legacy.”
The idea here is that capturing a moment in a portrait is not about ego or vanity. It’s about leaving a lasting legacy. It’s an intentional act—freezing a moment in time to remind ourselves, and future generations, of our unique presence in the world. This kind of portrait is about collaboration, seeing the beauty in ourselves, and celebrating it.
A Portrait Session as a Celebration of You
“For your kids who will pour over these pictures someday, it’s a timeless reminder: here you were, a force of love and light in the world, beautiful and strong and worthy.”
A portrait session isn’t about fixing or changing anything. It’s a celebration of who you already are—a masterpiece of love, light, beauty, and strength. By capturing ourselves with intention, we create a legacy that our children and future generations will cherish. It becomes a reminder of the person we were, of our enduring strength and worth.
Conclusion: Embracing the Present
“Today isn’t about fixing anything; today is about celebrating.”
Ultimately, my message in this video is simple yet profound. It encourages us to stop focusing on the things we want to change and instead celebrate the masterpiece that already exists within us. It’s time to show the world—and ourselves—that we are worthy, just as we are.
